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Couples stand together to fight the disease

Professionals from the fields of medicine and construction have been working in tandem to help beat the outbreak. Zhao Yimeng reports from Beijing, with Liu Kun and Wu Yong in Wuhan.

By Zhao Yimeng,Liu Kun and Wu Yong | China Daily | Updated: 2020-02-24 00:00
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Editor's note: As residents of Wuhan, Hubei province, continue to battle the coronavirus epidemic, China Daily profiles three couples working on the front line of the struggle.

Hu Ming and Wang Jie, ICU director and head nurse at the Wuhan Pulmonary Hospital

Wang Jie rushed from the fever clinic on the first floor of the Wuhan Pulmonary Hospital to the intensive care unit on the 13th floor, where her husband Hu Ming was working.

She only stopped there for two minutes. "I visited and told him off for not taking a good rest, and then I had to go back to my own work," Wang said, an angry look on her face.

Hu Ming remained silent in front of his wife. As director of the ICU, Hu has been working on the front line of the battle against the coronavirus epidemic for several weeks. Most days he has only had two to three hours rest.

He wasn't feeling well on Feb 6, and his temperature had been slightly higher than normal for a few days.

"He is not made of iron. I told him to take a rest, even though the result of his CT scan was fine. Even his departmental manager suggested that Hu should monitor his own physical condition, but he just didn't listen," Wang said.

Hu said: "Who will the patients count on if we retreat? The ICU is always the last pass for disease, and we are the guards of the pass. Without us, the pass is like a team without a goalkeeper."

He stressed that he would continue to work in the ICU until the epidemic had been defeated.

Hu and another experienced doctor undertake all risky procedures, such as tracheal intubations and bronchoscopies, which may expose them to patients' bodily fluids.

Wang said, "I am also very busy with my work in the fever clinic, so I can't take care of him like the other doctors' wives and support his daily life."

Hu finally agreed to take a break after his wife asked him to see things from her point of view and ease her concerns about him, given that they are both fighting on the front line.

Hu's raised temperature had nothing to do with the new form of pneumonia, and was more likely to be a result of his heavy workload and sweating excessively in the airtight protective gowns worn by all the front-line doctors.

The last time Hu and Wang saw their 10-year-old son in person was Jan 18, a traditional holiday that falls before Spring Festival. They spent 30 minutes eating dinner as a family before Hu and Wang returned to their posts at 8 pm.

Now, the two medics, who live in isolation units after work, can only squeeze in video chats with their son, who is being looked after by his grandparents at home.

On Lunar New Year's Eve, Hu used an online chat to apologize to his son for being absent.

Wang said: "My son is proud of his father. His grandma cried when Hu Ming had a fever, and I asked our son if he was worried, too. He said his father was serving the people and making a contribution to society."

She added that she could hardly believe those words had been spoken by her child.

This is not the first year the family has spent Lunar New Year's Eve apart. Since Hu and Wang married in 2005, they have spent fewer than half of their New Year's Eve's together, because one of them has been on duty at the hospital.

"I once complained that he (Hu) always puts the patients and his work ahead of me and our son, but I know it's the right thing to do as a doctor," Wang said.

"The lives of medical workers are always unusual, irrespective of whether the epidemic had happened or not, and I'm glad he cares about both his work and his family." They have decided to have a family photo taken as soon as the battle has been won. They have only had three family portraits taken in the past 10 years, and a new one would commemorate their victory over the coronavirus.

Ke Quan and Yu Chen, nurses at the Jinyintan Hospital in Wuhan

Ke Quan and Yu Chen were supposed to tie the knot in Wuhan on Feb 2, or 20200202, a rare palindromic date in the Chinese calendar.

In January, the civil affairs authorities approved the registration documents for the couple to get married on the lucky day, which fell on a weekend. The two nurses at Renmin Hospital of Wuhan University were only too happy to confirm their commitment to each other.

"We planned the marriage early in November, and chose the special date this year as our big day. Sadly, the plan was totally disrupted by the novel coronavirus pneumonia outbreak," Ke said.

When his department released a notice on Jan 11 calling for staff members to work in hospitals designated for patients infected with the virus, Ke immediately applied to work on the front line.

Seven days later, he was assigned to the intensive care unit at Jinyintan Hospital.

"My fiancee supported my decision, which freed me from extra concern. What I didn't expect was that she would later join me on the same battlefield," he said.

Yu was dispatched to Jinyintan Hospital to do emergency work on Jan 25. Ke was surprised when she informed him. "Now that I was here at great risk, I hoped she would work in a safer place," he said.

The courage shown by Ke prompted Yu to join the fight alongside her fiance.

"I told him that I was going to the front line, but I didn't mention the exact department, because our work details were confidential," she said.

The two met accidentally four days after Yu began her emergency assignment at the hospital.

"I saw a familiar figure wearing a protective gown in the quarantine area. The name written on the gown was 'Yu Chen'. When she turned around, I saw her eyes behind her goggles. I was shocked to find her on the same floor," Ke said.

Yu said it was only when Ke called her name in a voice full of doubt that she confirmed they were working on the same floor.

After a moment of slight shock, they went back to their posts to continue their busy tasks.

"I can't say I wasn't afraid, but knowing he was around eased my worries. We encouraged each other through eye contact," Yu said.

Although they had worked at the hospital before the outbreak, Ke suddenly saw Yu in a different light: "In this battlefield, I saw the power and courage in her small body, like a totally different person. In the middle of the battle against the virus our relationship was not just love, but a combination of family ties and wartime friendship. I don't think anyone or anything will be able to sway it in the future."

The two met in 2017. Yu's delicate handwriting, in which she had incorrectly rendered Ke's first name as "Nan" (which is similar to "Quan "in Chinese characters), caught his attention.

They fell in love as they shared an umbrella on a rainy day, and two years later they decided to get married.

During their first days on the front line, Ke still hoped they would meet their marriage deadline, but those dreams evaporated as the outbreak intensified. Now, they self-quarantine after work, like all the other medical workers.

On Feb 2, rather than getting married, they walked together to the canteen, both wearing protective gowns, and had dinner as a special reminder of the rare date. "The top priority now is to protect patients in the hospital. We don't have the time or energy to consider another big day, but when the epidemic has been conquered, we will think about it carefully," Ke said.

Hu Jie and Zhong Hao, employees of the China Construction Third Engineering Bureau Co.

"It rained heavily in Wuhan on Jan 24, Lunar New Year's Eve. Mr. Zhong hastened to the construction site. As I helped him pack, he asked me if I was afraid. I said, 'No, I will be here waiting for you to come back.' Fighting!"

That WeChat message was posted by Hu Jie, who works for a corporation operated by the China Construction Third Engineering Bureau Co.

She posted the message after her husband, Zhong Hao, who also works for the bureau, had headed to the construction site of Huoshenshan Hospital, an "instant infirmary" that was being built in Wuhan's Caidian district to treat coronavirus patients.

Three days later, Hu answered a call from her company to assist with work for the construction of Leishenshan Hospital, another emergency medical center, which was being built in Jiangxia district.

The couple, who had planned a road trip to spend Spring Festival in Enshi, Hubei, canceled their plans and devoted themselves to fighting the disease on different battlefields.

Hu took charge of the paperwork and communications with different units on the Leishenshan construction site, while Zhong was a member of the administration office of the Huoshenshan project.

"We haven't met for days, as he is on standby 24 hours a day at the hospital. But he always sends me a message at 10 pm, before the daily work summary meeting, to ask if I got home OK," Hu said.

They have maintained this habit since 2016, when they worked in different cities. The two met at work in the northern port city of Tianjin, and married in 2012. Two years later, the bureau assigned them to Northeast China, but Zhong was dispatched to Wuhan in 2016.

In 2018, Hu was also transferred to Wuhan, which ended their separation. This time, she knew they would be unlikely to see each other while they were busy on the front line of the coronavirus battle.

Built in 10 days, the 1,000-bed Huoshenshan Hospital began receiving patients on Feb 3, Hu's birthday.

Zhong came home briefly the night before.

After saying a quick "Happy Birthday" and collecting a change of clothes, he returned to the construction site to help with the final stages of the construction process.

The pace of work on both projects was so intense that Hu was shocked when her mother reminded her of Lantern Festival, which fell on Feb 8 this year.

On the same day, Leishenshan Hospital, which can accommodate 1,600 patients, received its first batch of patients.

Hu and Zhong's respective parents were supposed to join them on the road trip this year, but the journey has been canceled.

"We broke our holiday promise, but they fully support our decision. My father told me that we are free to support the country, while they protect themselves," Hu said.

"If possible, when the epidemic is over, we want to travel with our parents to Chengdu, Sichuan province, to see the pandas."

Hu and Zhong hope people nationwide are confident of victory in the battle against the virus.

"We are at the front line and we are fine, so I see myself as an example to encourage others not to become too anxious," Hu said.

 

Zhong Hao (left) works at the construction site of Huoshenshan Hospital in Wuhan, Hubei province, last month. His wife, Hu Jie, worked at the construction site for Leishenshan Hospital, another 'instant infirmary' in the city. CHINA DAILY

 

 

Doctor Hu Ming and nurse Wang Jie hold a greeting card in 2016 at their hospital in Wuhan. CHINA DAILY

 

 

Nurses Yu Chen and Ke Quan give the thumbs-up at the Jinyintan Hospital this month. CHINA DAILY

 

 

Hu Jie takes a construction worker's temperature at the site of Leishenshan Hospital last month. SU FENG/CHINA DAILY

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