Funeral banquets rake in money amid crying (Shanghai Daily) Updated: 2006-03-08 09:20
Residents of Jia'an Apartment in Xuhui District of Shanghai are
demanding a nearby restaurant stop offering funeral dinners, saying the music
and crying in front of their residential building create a terrible mood.
The Jia Yuan Restaurant is located across Wanping Road S. from the
residential complex.
The deputy director of the building's home owners committee said that the
restaurant began to offer funeral dinners last year.
"It receives several batches of customers for funeral service dinners
everyday," Yang Wenyin, the deputy director said.
Following Chinese customs, relatives of the dead dress in white and burn
paper houses and money before the dinner, which also involves lots of crying and
loud music.
"Facing such scene everyday when entering and leaving the complex, our
residents said they feel very uncomfortable," Yang pointed out. "And in order
not to meet such scene when a family wants to hold a wedding ceremony, we
officials should also negotiate with the restaurant to stagger the time to make
sure two families won't meet."
Managers of the restaurant were unwilling to discuss the situation yesterday.
An employee of the restaurant did, however, pointing out the eatery has a
business license and should be allowed to offer any kind of service it wants.
Sociologist Gu Xiaoming pointed out that funerals are considered unlucky in
China.
"The custom caused people to feel uncomfortable subconsciously when facing
anything related to a funeral."
A funeral service company said the windows of its downtown office were
smashed on several occasions last fall, an act it blamed on the building's other
tenants who didn't want to share an office building with a funeral service
company.
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