Indian prostitute mum sparks storm with book
Updated: 2005-12-20 06:49
NEW DELHI: Her long, wavy, black hair tied loosely in a knot, 50-year-old
Nalini Jameela looks like any other Indian housewife.
Nalini Jameela (50) holds her book 'The
Autobiography of a Sex Worker' in the southern Indian state of Kerala
December 14, 2005. Her long, wavy, black hair tied loosely in a knot,
Jameela looks like any other Indian housewife. But this attractive,
largely uneducated mother of two is a best-selling author and prostitute
whose outspoken views of sex work as an ordinary career choice have
stirred controversy in conservative India.
But this attractive, largely uneducated mother of two is a best-selling
author and prostitute whose outspoken views of sex work as a career choice have
stirred controversy in conservative India.
Her "Autobiography of a Sex Worker," has angered both feminists, who say it
glorifies sex work, and conservatives, who think prostitutes should keep quiet.
"I have written this book for other sex workers. I wanted to talk about it to
remove the stigma," Jameela said. Her hometown was Kerala State.
"People think we are bad because we have sex for money. Nobody understands
Jameela was forced into prostitution 25 years ago when her first husband
died, leaving her with a child to support. Sex work paid more than she was
earning as a factory worker. She charges her clients between 500-1,000 rupees
(US$11-US$22) per visit.
Her first customer was a policeman. When she came out of the room the next
morning, she was beaten up by police on orders of another policeman she had
"I felt humiliated, but I had no option but to continue."
Book glorifies prostitution?
"Prostitution is considered as work" in the book, K. Ajitha, president of
Anweshi, a Kerala women's group said. "I don't accept that. Women in
prostitution have only the right to sell their bodies, they don't have the right
Written with I. Gopinath, an activist who works with sex workers, the book
has sold more than 10,000 copies in less than six months in a market where 5,000
in a year is a best seller.
Jameela has so far earned 84,000 rupees (US$1,830) from book sales.
But in India, public displays of affection are frowned upon and talking about
sex publicly is still taboo.
One popular south Indian actress has been pelted with sandals, tomatoes and
rotten eggs and hauled before a court for suggesting women might have sex before
marriage and telling men not to expect their brides to be virgins anymore.
Protests over her comments lasted more than a month.
Prostitution is outlawed, but India has more than 2 million sex workers
living on the fringes of society. They have few rights and abuse by both
customers and the police is common.
Commercial sex is one of the main drivers of the spread of HIV/AIDS and India
has more than 5 million reported cases of people living with the virus,
rivalling South Africa as the worst hit nation.
The US Central Intelligence Agency estimates more than 20 million people
could be infected with HIV in India by 2010 and economists warn it could
undermine India's rise to economic superpower status.
Alarmed by the rising numbers, the government's Planning Commission has
recommended prostitution be legalized to help fight AIDS.
Many prostitutes are pushed into the trade by traffickers and by poverty and
some, including thousands of girls smuggled in from Nepal each year, are held as
sex slaves for a decade or more.
Against this backdrop, some women activists accuse Gopinath of interpreting
Jameela's words in a way that glorifies prostitution.
"They cannot imagine that a woman on the street can say such things. I cannot
imagine all this. These are Jameela's ideas, not mine," Gopinath says.
Says V.C. Harris, a professor at Kerala's MG University: "This is not a
victim's book. One of the most striking things about the book is the confidence
and inner strength that exudes from it."
Like many women in India, Jameela's education is minimal. She finished school
after third grade, which is roughly about 7 years old. Over the years, she
married three times and has two grown daughters, now both housewives.
"Autobiography of a Sex Worker" has brought a degree of fame, money and
respect. Jameela's 24-year-old daughter Seena, married and pregnant with her
first child, is happy with her mother's fame.
"Earlier, people used to say that because my mother is a prostitute, I must
also be one. But now when they call me Nalini Jameela's daughter I feel very
good," Seena says.
Neither Seena, nor her sister Latha, have followed their mother's footsteps,
although Jameela says that she would not have stopped them from becoming
prostitutes if they had wanted to.
(China Daily 12/20/2005 page6)