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Hey, baby, what's your blood type?
(Agencies)
Updated: 2005-04-18 11:34 Lee Sung-san is a 24-year-old
South Korean student looking for love and hoping that the women he is wooing
don't ask him for his blood type.
Genetics and pop culture have teamed up to make Lee's love life miserable.
Lee is blood type-B, which nudges him near to the nadir of the dating scene
in South Korea.
"I have had women tell me flat out they don't date blood type-B guys. They
say we are selfish and hot-headed," Lee said.
South Korean magazines, TV shows and Internet chat rooms have been buzzing
about blood types for years.
But, these days, the subject of attention is just how difficult it is to
strike up a relationship with type-B men.
Scientists say there is no link between blood type and personality. But that
hasn't stopped self-proclaimed experts from declaring, for example, that type-A
women, with their shy ways, should avoid type-B men, who are likely to be cads.
Associating blood types with personality traits has been going on for decades
in North Asia.
Most of the original interest started in Japan early in the 20th century and
it has also taken off in South Korea.
There are many characteristics associated with type-B people, but the bad rap
going around about type-B men in Korea is that they are selfish, mercurial and
absolutely useless as caring and devoted boyfriends.
Type-B women, on the other hand, seem to have escaped the wrath of pop
culture.
Last fall, a song from singer Kim Hyun-jung called "Type-B Men" soared to the
top of the charts.
The song had lyrics that said type-B men are quick to get angry and quick to
make up, but in the end, they will break your heart.
The blood type of bad boys
Author Kim Nang has been ringing up steady sales of her book, "Dating a
Type-B Man," in which she lays out strategies for women of various blood types
to deal with the pitfalls and pleasures of striking up relationships with type-B
men.
Another assault on pop culture came earlier this year with the release of the
romantic comedy, "My Boyfriend is Type-B", which tells the frustrations of a
type-A woman who falls in love with just such a man.
The man in the movie makes his girlfriend wait for hours in his car so that
he doesn't have to pay for parking.
On a date, his head is permanently swiveling to check out other women.
The movie, made for about $2.5 million, took in more than $10 million at the
box office in South Korea and is to appear on Japanese screens later this year.
Director Choi Sukwon said he had first worked on a movie about blood types as
a film student at New York University.
He produced a short film that was well-received and later returned to the
subject for his feature in South Korea.
"Bashing is too harsh a word to describe what is happening to blood type-B
men. For women they are seen as bad boys, but they are also appealing because
they are charming and attractive," said Choi, himself a type-B man.
"Those traits make blood type-B men notorious for girls in Korea. Girls all
over the world want their men to be sensitive, to listen to what they need and
what they feel," he said.
Choi said the more he investigated the subject of blood types, the more
conflicting information he received.
Bad blood or a bad match?
In Asia, the subject of linking blood types to personality took off with the
1927 publication of a series of articles by Japanese scholar Takeji Furukawa
called "The Study of Temperament Through Blood Type."
The concept hit pop culture and mass media in 1971 when Japanese writer
Masahiko Nomi expanded upon Furukawa's ideas and wrote "Understanding
Compatibility from Blood Types."
Type-O people were described as outgoing, expressive and passionate. Type-A
were considered introverted perfectionists while type-AB were an unpredictable,
distant lot.
And then there was type-B. They were considered independent spirits with
strong personalities.
Nomi's works and other similar books from Japan have been translated into
Korean. At most major bookstores in Seoul, there are works from Japan on
subjects such as how a type-A mother should raise a type-O son.
These days, South Korean women's magazines and Internet sites dedicated to
trends seem to be fixated with the subject of romance with type-B men.
According to a recent nationwide survey conducted by Internet portal site
www.xyinlove.co.kr, type-B men were considered to be the most difficult type to
date and about 40 percent of women said they did not want to marry a type-B man.
The Internet message board at the blood clinic of Seoul University Hospital
has postings such as one from a woman seeking medical advice to find out "if it
is true that type-B men have more extramarital affairs than other blood types?"
Kim Tae-suk, a doctor in the department of psychiatry at the Catholic
University of Korea, said younger Koreans were buying into defining people by
blood types because of what they see on TV, movies and in print.
"I can definitively say there is no scientific evidence that links a person's
blood type to their character," Kim said.
He added that every jilted lover should just calm down and stop blaming a
break-up on a bad blood match.
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