"Ladies and gentlemen" is a polite way to greet both males and females. Their
equivalence is found in many languages.
In Chinese, these words are translated into nushimen and xianshengmen, which
also means Ms and Mr. At first glance, this seems rather straightforward.
However, if we look at the meaning behind the words, a socio-cultural dimension
emerges, which is worth attending to.
Nushimen contains the words nu, "woman," and shi, "commendable person" (men
indicates plural). Thus, nushimen implies that a person is both commendable and
of the female sex.
Xianshengmen, however, does not reveal the sex of the person. Instead, the
word contains xian and sheng, which literally means "firstborn." Hence, in
Chinese, as in many other languages, words are used for women to disclose their
sex, while those used for men are sex-neutral. This is noteworthy as the
language signals that men are the norm and women are the deviation from that
norm.
In a Chinese cultural context, age implies respect and superiority as the
Confucian code places old before young. To call someone "firstborn" is a way to
signify the importance of a person.
Ever since the time of Confucius and throughout imperial China, xiansheng was
used only for highly respected scholars and intellectuals. Beginning with the
May Fourth Movement in 1919, which witnessed an increase in the female
intellectual elite, it was used for both male and female scholars. Since then,
the meaning has shifted quite radically.
Only few women in China today qualify to be called xiansheng if the word's
historical meaning was respected. Most of these women were active in the 1919
movement, such as the famous woman author Bing Xin.
It is unknown if she identified herself as nushi or xiansheng, or maybe both.
The key point of concern is the fact that men automatically qualify for
xiansheng just by being male, whereas women have to become great intellectuals
in order to be referred to with the same degree of respect.
Being a product of norms and values, language is not, and can never be,
neutral. Equally important, language reproduces and forms values and attitudes,
especially in regard to how we perceive women and men. Perhaps one day, when the
agenda for gender equality has been further advanced, we will all be called
xiansheng, due to the mere fact that we are all human beings and therefore
deserve dignity and respect.
The author is a PhD candidate with the Department of
Sociology at the Lund University, Sweden
(China Daily 05/18/2006 page4)