As Valentine's Day approaches, panicked men everywhere are sifting through boxes of chocolates, red roses and perfumes. But if you are tired of the old standbys, surprise your loved one with a weekend away from it all in one of China's three most romantic spots.

Stunning Lugu Lake

The awe inspiring natural beauty of Yunnan backlights your enchanting escape to Lugu Lake, nestled in the foothills of the Himalayas. Northwest of Lijiang, you'll find the "pearl in the highland" and its sparkling turquoise blue waters. The Lugu Lake area is a perfect place to forget the rush of city life, slow down and focus on one of life's more spiritual pursuits: The search for true love.

Start your trip off right at the elegant Banyan Tree Lijiang. Currently the hotel is offering a "Spa Indulgence" promotion, which includes a stay in a villa, daily breakfast for two and choice of one 90 minute massage per person. After you and your sweetie get your fill of pampering, head to Lugu Lake for a day of stunning scenery and a lesson in alternative love.

The local Mosuo ethnic group has managed to preserve their long practiced tradition of matriarchal society and "walking marriages." Under the prescriptions of this practice, a man enters the home of his lover only between the fall of night and the dawn of morning, when he returns home to his mother's household. Lovers may dissolve their relationship whenever they feel the flame has burned out, and continue in search of an ideal partner.

Find inspiration for your quest in the picturesque scenery by taking a three hour hike up the mountain to a mysterious cave dedicated to worshiping the god of the mountain. Stop here to take in the spectacular view and indulge in a romantic mountain top picnic. And if the mood strikes you, Banyan also offers wedding packages.

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